SEE! It was meant to be!!

OK, so i'm reading this article and it seriously described me and a certain someone to a T! Here's the relevant snippets:

If you’re a youngest child

You’re all about fun. The most outgoing kids in the birth order, youngest children live to have a good time (it may be because your parents were more laid-back by the time you came along). On a typical first date you’ll have your date laughing so hard beer shoots out his or her nose. In fact, “most famous comedians are youngest children,” says Dr. Leman. A partial list: Jon Stewart, Jim Carrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Steve Martin, Eddie Murphy. And forget ho-hum plans, like dinner and a movie: You love to do the unexpected, often on the spur of the moment. You’re the type to take someone to a party, only to whisper two minutes later, “Let’s get out of here,” and then convince your date to take a road-trip to Atlantic City or Vegas for the weekend.

Your love challenge: “Babies are the least financially dependable,” warns Dr. Leman (it comes from being, well, babied). So your date may be stuck picking up the tab when your credit card is maxed out. Also, some youngest children — not you, of course! — use that last-born charm and charisma to be a bit, ahem, manipulative, says Dr. Leman. That breed of baby will sneak off to hit golf balls with pals, leaving his or her date to fill in at a volunteer gig.

Best match: Oldest child (they serve as a good counterbalance in a parent-child sort of way) or middle child (they value friendships, so they totally understand why you love being the life of the party).


If you’re an only child

You’re a rock-solid citizen—and sweetie. “Only children are super-reliable,” Dr. Leman says. “They’re like oldest children to the extreme.” Growing up with only adults made you into a little grown-up early on—serious and dependable. You’re the rare person who will stay up half the night helping a friend or partner prep for a licensing exam or a big work presentation. You’re the type to move your partner’s car so he or she doesn’t get a ticket. Punctual and true to your word, onlies like you never leave a loved one waiting for a call or email. And you’re articulate, too, so your date can expect great conversations that really make a person think.

Your love challenge: Admit it: You’re a bit of a perfectionist. Maybe you send back steaks that aren’t cooked just so or point out a teeny-tiny stain on your date’s sweater. Also, you’re so cautious and pragmatic, you can be very slow to act (read: Someone else has to make the first move).

Best match: Youngest kid, because you balance each other out. The baby of the family adds the spontaneity and romance, while you make sure you two aren’t dining by candlelight because the electric bill never got paid!

sooo yeah...the green parts describe us OH so well...and if you don't know, i'm the baby and he's the only child (oh duh biddy! i constantly talk about my nephew so i must have a sibling...anyway) So WHY WON'T HE CALL OR EMAIL OR TEXT ME BACK!?!? This is just so not like him. I don't know if I should be worried, pissed, or both. But my feelings are seriously hurt...that's for dang sure...

grrrr angry face! i think i'm going to boycott men altogether. yeah, probably not, but it sounds good! I just don't know what to do. I've been hoping and praying for this opportunity for 2 years now...I finally get it, and it's over before it begins...before I really get a chance to say what I want to say because of outside interferrance. But now, how do I tell him how I feel when he has suddenly dropped off the face of the earth!?